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“The fact of suffering undoubtedly constitutes the single greatest challenge to the Christian faith.” –John Stott
It’s been this way since time began.
The fact that you are still reading tells me that nothing has changed… SUFFERING a LOSS raises questions and doubts and fears and anger as it CHALLENGES our ability to cope and adapt and recover.
But the good news today is that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
You are not alone in your suffering.
You are not alone in your loss.
We don’t need to look beyond our own circle of friends & family to find others who are suffering losses, too. Our stories and their stories inevitably are marked by people, places, experiences and situations where what we once held dear is no longer ours to hold.
Consider the scriptures.
Story after story about people who not only experience the mountaintops, but the depths of grief as well:
Adam & Eve
Because of a choice that they made, they lost their fellowship with God AND their home in the Garden. Later in their story, they lose a son – or, perhaps they lost TWO sons – as the one killed the other in a fit of jealousy.
The one with the coat. Lost his family at the hand of brothers who hated him. They sold him into slavery. Told his father he was dead. This same Joseph, trying to live a godly life as a slave, is falsely accused of sexual harassment by his boss’s wife and thrown into prison for years. NONE of these losses, by the way, were a result of Joseph’s choices. He had no say. They just happened TO him.
Lost his children in one horrific accident. Lost his livelihood. Lost his health. All because of things going on around him that he had no control over. It wasn’t his fault.
KING David. The one we know as “a man after God’s own heart”. Lost his fellowship with the Lord, for a time, because of a series of bad choices that included sleeping with someone else’s wife and then having her husband murdered. David’s loss didn’t end there. Even though he married the woman he had gotten pregnant, she lost the baby. Lost a child. Another loss.
The prophet. The one used by God to call down fire on a soaking wet altar, putting the competition in its place. Even Elijah suffered loss. Loss of hope. Loss of perspective. He suffered from depression. Depression that was undoubtedly linked to the death threats he had received from a very powerful woman. His choice? A chemical imbalance? Does it matter?! A loss nonetheless.
Finally, the Apostle Paul.
Wrote much of the New Testament. Spoke the message of Christ far and wide with boldness and passion. This hero of the faith found himself at the end of life, sitting in a cold prison cell, alone. Lonely. And he suffered from the loss of fellowship he had known – we know this because he wrote it in a letter to his friend, Timothy. We can read it in God’s Word.
What we ALSO read in God’s Word are words like these:
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
(He must be really STRONG in ME – weakling that I am.)
“In this world you WILL have trouble, but take heart – I have overcome the world.” John 16:33
Our God makes it clear over and over again in scripture that He is close to the brokenhearted (Ps. 34:18).
He tends to our wounds.
He is our RESCUE.
But just in case words like these sound trite and churchy to you, know that God “keeps track of every toss & turn through the sleepless nights.” Each tear and ache is entered into His book (Ps. 56:8).
There’s a Hebrew custom – the jar of tears – have you heard of it? At funerals, a tiny jar is passed around and each mourner puts a teardrop into it. The jar of tears represents the hearts that are suffering the loss of the person who has died.
I believe that God not only keeps track of the tears we shed, but that His big heart breaks for us in our suffering. And there is nothing that we are feeling or have felt that He, through Jesus, hasn’t felt before.
God is ready to do something big for you today! He’s coming alongside you in your suffering, your grief, your loss…
“All praise to the God and Father of our Master, Jesus the Messiah! Father of all mercy! God of all healing counsel! He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us.”
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
God uses our experiences to prepare and uniquely position us to come alongside others who are suffering, too. The heading over this section in the Message Bible is “THE RESCUE”.
He rescues us, and then He gives us the opportunity to extend that rescue to others.
I see a rescue in your future, my friend.
Maybe it’s yours to be HAD.
Maybe it’s in your power to GIVE.
Either way, we had better get busy. There is SAVING to be done (praise the Lord)!
- messy stories (everydayawe.com)